Best Remote Control Vibrators: 
My Top 5 Favorite Bluetooth Vibrators

Written by: Angela Watson | Updated: April 23rd, 2019

Looking For The Best Of The Best? Here It Is:

The Lush 2 from Lovense takes home the distinction of being the best remote controlled sex toy currently out there.


It secured it's position by being the strongest, longest lasting, and furthest reaching of all of the remote controlled toys on the list below. Using the app to customize vibrations beyond what the average remote can accomplish makes for unique sessions each and every time. Explosive orgasms are the Lush's bread and butter.

Today's vibrators are nothing like the vibrators of old. What used to be pretty basic plastic tubes that were probably just a way to use up excess plastics from other industries without much thought put into the final product. They were all pretty much just cucumbers that you slipped a AA battery into and hoped for the best.

Luckily for all of us at home, vibrators have since evolved to much better compliment the wide array of shapes women come in as well as their varied tastes.

From the Lovense Domi that reinvented the wheel when it comes to wand vibrators to the Lelo Ina Wave that coupled a run of the mill rabbit vibrator with a "come-hither" motion, technology has evolved past what we'd have ever expected when it comes to sex toys.

But this technological wave is far from coming to an end, in fact I believe it is just beginning. We now have remote controlled vibrators that put all of the settings right in your hand. For the purposes of this article, I consider any kind of vibrator that you can change the controls of without having to touch the toy itself as it is controlled, well, remotely.

Sometimes this isn't necessarily a remote that comes with the toy, but instead an app controlled vibrator that connects through Bluetooth. Since everybody has a smartphone these days, many manufacturers choose instead to rely on an app and release a Bluetooth vibrator that can satisfy all of your needs.

The bottom line is, there are a lot of ways to control your toys now.

Why Choose A Remote Controlled Vibrator?

Now the real question is, what does a remote controlled vibrator do that a regular one cant? Why go ahead and add a whole new way of controlling your sex toy when buttons have served us all so well in the past?

Well, these sex toys can function in a whole new way than I even thought possible before I knew about them. Namely, long distance vibrators are now a thing. The relationship I have with husband is occasionally long distance, with him taking long business trips frequently. I've fill the physical intimacy gaps myself for some time, but I was always lacking in the emotional intimacy department. Enter a Bluetooth enabled vibrator.

Now when I'm using a toy, I can pair it to my phone and then go on the app and allow my husband to remotely control the toy from his phone as long as we're both connected to the internet. Whether he's in Chicago, Milwaukee, or Atlanta, I can have him help bring me to climax thanks to these toys. For that alone, they're great. I love knowing that my husband is out there teasing me and gradually playing with the settings in all the ways he knows I like despite being separated from me by several hundred miles. For long distance couples, these toys are a godsend.

The same kind of enjoyment can be had with your partner in the same room as you. Allow them to control the settings while they watch what gets you off the most and do their best to push all of your buttons. I personally enjoy going at my own pace but letting Don have at it with the individual settings. Of course, the typical sexual power dynamics come into play and there's a lot of room for some fun.

Of course, using it all on your own can make the entire experience of using a sex toy much more comfortable overall. Instead of fumbling with hard to use controls on a toy I'm already reaching down with, there are times where I've held the remote in one hand or laid my phone down beside me to change settings on the fly. The level of customization that comes with app controlled sex toys is unparalleled, there's essentially now no limit to what kind of intensity and patterns you can create. Some even sync up to music, for Pete's sake.

Not all of these remote controlled vibrators are the same as your regular vibrators, either. Some are completely wearable and can only be controlled remotely, which is fun in and of itself.

So that's the draw to these remote controlled vibrators. Let me get into some specifics of what my favorites are capable of to give you a better decision:

My Favorite Remote Controlled Vibrators

The Lovense Lush (Best Connectivity)

The Lovense Lush is a wearable vibrator that is controlled exclusively by the Lovense Remote app. 

Two parts make up the Lush, the extendable Bluetooth antenna and the main body of the toy. Because of this long antenna that extends far past the body of the toy itself, the useful range of the Lush is probably one of the longest out of any of the remote controlled vibrators I've used.  If you're going at it from the front, there's a full thirty feet usable length. That means I've been in the kitchen puttering away when Don's on the couch having his fun making it extremely difficult for me to walk our snacks over without keeling over in pleasure.

The app lets you control it in a couple different ways. You can either work up the intensity in a sliding scale to make alternating patterns, choose between consistent low-medium-high vibrations, sync it up to music, or make custom vibration patterns of every shape and size. There's even a sound activated mode, and having my husband talk dirty into his phone and having the Lush vibrate in kind is an experience I am so glad I was able to have.

As far as the raw power of this device goes, it does fantastically. There's a huge range from a gentle murmur to an explosively powerful kind of vibration that is able to penetrate pretty deep into my tissues. For a vibrator that doesn't rely on rumbly low frequency vibrations, that's a pretty big accomplishment.


The We-Vibe Rave (Perfect For G-Spot Lovers)

The We-Vibe Rave is a vibrator specifically made for targeting the G-spot, and if you use the remote controlled offerings right I find it is extremely useful for people who might have difficulty finding & staying with their G-spots.

The toy is wonderfully curved to dip towards the front of the body and track down the elusive bundle of nerves that make every woman moan in delight. It has one of the longest and most comfortable handles out of any vibrator I've used, G-Spot or otherwise.

What also helps the toy to really stimulate all of the most sensitive parts of the vagina is the subtle ridges along the sides of the toy, if you rotate the toy just right you might find yourself feeling sensations you've never been able to feel with any other toy in your war chest.

The reason why the inclusion of app control makes this vibrator so worthwhile is that with most G-spot vibrators you need to fumble about with the buttons on the toy to change the settings, which risks you losing your place inside of your body.

If you use the app with your other hand, you can keep the toy in place while you cycle through different settings to see what kind of vibration rocks your world the best without any risk of the toy moving away from that G-spot of yours that you just spent so much time trying to reach.


The Lovense Nora (Excellent Range Of Sensations)

The Lovense Nora is hands down one of my favorite vibrators, period. The motors in the vaginal and clitoral arms have exactly the right amount of settings and intensities on each for it to be the one vibrator I'd bring with me on a deserted island if I had to pick just one.

Besides the ergonomic curves throughout the shaft of the toy, the head also rotates in a full 360 degree range of motion for some utterly stimulating fun.

The remote controls on the Nora are very expansive and pretty much all of them are worth taking a look at. It's the same app that controls the Lush, so the full range of options are there, just a little switched up. You can tailor how quickly the head spins to exactly your preference and make whatever vibration pattern suits you best.

Of course, syncing it up to some music is always an entertaining time, I've been serious with it and went for sexy songs or songs of a certain intensity, but getting my jollies out of a novelty/funny song is also rewarding in it's own right.

If you find the clitoral vibrator to be too powerful, you can very easily tailor it to fit your preferences while still keeping the rest of the toy as gentle or powerful as you need to get the most out of it all. The benefits of being able to do this on the fly with your phone make it that much easier to see what you respond well to and what you don't.


Lelo Lyla 2 (Big Fun In A Small Package)

Now the Lyla 2 is a great option if you want a remote controlled vibrator that actually does come with a remote as opposed to having to rely on an app for your smartphone.

The Lyla 2 is a combination bullet/wearable vibrator. As a bullet vibrator, it is very satisfying on most vibration modes, but it doesn't really have much in the way of pinpoint stimulation. There is the end, but it is gently rounded and not as pinpoint a bullet vibrator as say, the Tango.

It does however fit the bill perfectly as a wearable vibrator. It fits well, the strong vibrations do great at radiating deep into the surrounding tissues to make up for the lack of length, and controlling it with one hand on the remote while it does its thing inside of me is relaxing and makes me tremble at the knees.

The remote on this bad boy works up to 39 feet away, and I applaud Lelo for not just rounding it up to 40 and expecting us to never know the difference. So not only can you yourself play with the remote while you use it, somebody else sitting at the end of the bed or even across the room while you wear it casually can have their fun as well.

It's also pretty quiet, it typically registers about 50db at the maximum setting, which is about as loud as a normal conversation. When it's inside of you the sound is muffled considerably, especially if you're under some covers or wearing clothing overtop.


We Vibe Sync (Perfect For Couples)

This remote controlled vibrator is a little different from all of the others on this list, as it is intended to be used as a couple's vibrator.

A couple's vibrator works by putting the U-shaped device inside of the vagina to deliver clitoral stimulation and vaginal stimulation to the wearer while the partner also gets to take advantage of the vibrations offered from the toy.

The Sync has three options for control, the buttons on the toy, a bundled in remote control, or the WeCare app. So, this one is both a Bluetooth vibrator and a remote control vibrator all in one.

The device has enough pivot points to allow anyone to have it fit their personal biology so there's less risk of the toy moving around when it's in use and moving off of all of those sweet spots.

With the remote, you can cycle through all ten different vibration patterns and enjoy the strong rumbly vibrations on offer, while the WeCare app allows for much more customized vibration patterns if that's what you're looking for. I personally keep to the remote as I like all of the different options that come out of the box.

With a powerful rumble to their motors and two hours use time before it needs to be charged, I'm very impressed with the We-Vibe Sync.


Vibease (Awesome Clitoral Vibrator)

This vibrator from Vibease is a combination clitoral vibration and wearable vibrator that has one of the most developed apps I've ever used with a sex toy.

The gentle tip is great at caressing the clitoris and while it isn't the most powerful toy on the market, it's earned its place as a valuable tool for people who like sharing their experiences together long distance.

The app comes with a full chat client that includes text and video and it allows the person on the other end to play with the toy while you're chatting away. On top of it all, there are even some e-books on the app you can use and have the toy respond in intensity that matches up with the story. There are some free e-books to try it out, with a few paid options if you end up really liking it.

It's also stellar as a wearable vibrator, it fits over the clitoris nicely and with the right pair of panties you can wear it out just about anywhere without anyone being wise to the game.


Parting Words

Getting a remote control vibrator makes things a lot easier to manage while you're in the act, and open up great possibilities if you plan on using the toys with a partner.

Bluetooth sex toys in general are fantastic since they add the ability to add your own personalized touches to how your toy interacts with you that previously wasn't possible. Not to mention the fact that they open up marvelous opportunities for long distance sex, something I've always appreciated Bluetooth enabled toys for.

Leave a comment down below if you have any questions about any of the toys on this list!

About Angela Watson

I'm a sex therapist by day and a sex blogger by night. I love to crush the taboos surrounding sex toys and help people become more sexually liberated. There's no topic too risqué for me to cover and I hope to educate and inform my readers on all things sex. All things that concern the female anatomy or require a more clinical approach than my husband Don can provide is covered by me.

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