Lovense Flexer Review:

Experience Ultimate Pleasure and Intimacy

Written by: Angela Watson | Updated: July 14th, 2023

Lovense Flexer Review

Hey there, pleasure seekers! Angela Watson here, your go-to source for all things delightfully naughty.

Today, I am beyond excited to introduce you to a game-changing pleasure toy that's making waves in the world of sexual satisfaction—the one and only Lovense Flexer.

This little gem is not your average vibrator; it's a tantalizing blend of clitoral and G-spot stimulation that will have you weak at the knees.

Trust me, folks, once you experience the magic of the Flexer, there's no going back. So, buckle up and get ready for a pleasure revolution!

What is the Lovense Flexer?

The Lovense Flexer is a mind-blowing pleasure toy that takes your pleasure to soaring new heights. Get ready for an unforgettable experience that will leave you grinning from ear to ear!

This remarkable device combines clitoral and G-spot stimulation, utilizing a unique "come-hither" motion that replicates the sensation of being fingered.

Crafted with an ergonomic design and made from body-safe silicone, the Flexer ensures a comfortable and secure fit during use.

With its triple motor system, it offers precise control over each stimulation point, allowing you to customize your pleasure experience. The Flexer is also app-controlled, opening up a world of interactive possibilities and remote play with a partner. 

Versatile, powerful, and user-friendly, the Lovense Flexer is a true pleasure powerhouse that delivers on its promises. Get ready to embark on an unforgettable journey of pleasure and indulge in ecstasy like never before.

Flexer Technical Specs

Alright, let's get down to the nitty-gritty of the Lovense Flexer. We've got you covered with the picture down below. No need to break out the measuring tape!

Weight: Weighing just 3.35 ounces, it's impressively lightweight, ensuring a comfortable and non-cumbersome experience during use.

Materials: Constructed from non-porous, body-safe silicone, the Flexer guarantees a luxurious feel against your skin, while also being easy to clean and maintain.

Waterproof: The Flexer is ready to get wet and wild! With its IPX7 rating, go ahead and enjoy thrilling sensations in the shower or bath. Plus, cleaning up afterwards is an absolute breeze. 

Lovense Flexer

Battery: It’s rechargeable Li-Ion battery boasts a 60-minute charging time, providing up to 120 minutes of playtime—more than enough for indulging in multiple pleasure sessions. 

Connectivity: With its compatibility with the Lovense Remote App, the Flexer opens up a world of interactive possibilities. The app allows you to control the Flexer's vibration patterns and intensities with ease, bringing customization and versatility to your pleasure sessions. It also features the Remote function, where your partner can join in the fun and control the toy from afar, making long-distance play incredibly exciting.

Warranty: Backed by a 1-year warranty against defects, the Lovense Flexer assures you of its quality and durability. It's a toy that's built to last and provide endless pleasure-filled adventures.

Three's Company: The Lovense Flexer's Triple Motor Delight

Let's talk about the magical trio that lies within the Lovense Flexer! This pleasure powerhouse boasts not one, not two, but three glorious motors that work in perfect harmony to send waves of ecstasy pulsating through your body. Each motor plays a crucial role in delivering the ultimate pleasure experience.

The G-spot arm proudly houses one of these motors, dedicated to whisking you away to G-spot paradise. It knows exactly how to caress and stimulate that hidden treasure, delivering waves of ecstasy that will leave you weak in the knees.

The clit arm hosts another sensational motor, entirely devoted to your clitoral delight.It's like having your own personal pleasure conductor, orchestrating pulsations and vibrations that will send shivers of pleasure cascading through your body.

Now, here's where the Flexer's true genius shines. The pièce de résistance, the star of the show, is the motor nestled within the elbow.

This magnificent motor is responsible for creating that tantalizing fingering sensation, that "come-hither" motion that makes your toes curl with pleasure. It's like having a skilled lover's fingers expertly exploring your innermost desires, leaving you in a state of pure bliss.

And let's not forget the wonders of the app control. With just a single icon, you hold the power to command the motors in the arms simultaneously, harmonizing their vibrations to create a symphony of pleasure that will make you sing with delight. But here's the twist – you also have the option to control the flexing sensation separately. So, whether you desire intense vibrations, crave the rhythmic flexing, or yearn for the perfect fusion of both, the choice is yours.

Remote Bliss: Unleashing the Lovense Flexer's App Control Magic

The Lovense Remote App, a well-established and time-tested solution, has been catering to users' needs for several years. It presents a plethora of options with its seamless integration, allowing individuals to effortlessly control and enhance their intimate experiences using a wide range of Lovense sex toys.

First up, we have the Remote function. This function grants you two-finger control over the Flexer's reactions. Imagine the sheer delight of simulating that real-life "come hither" motion, even when your partner is miles away.

The distance is no barrier to pleasure when you wield the power of the Remote function. But that's not all – the Remote function also offers other standard features, including Loop, Float, and a traditional slider control. It's a pleasure playground at your fingertips, waiting to be explored.

But wait, there's more! Let's not forget the Close-Range (up to 30ft) control and Long-Distance control capabilities that the Lovense Remote App brings to the table. Whether you're in the same room or continents apart, you can take control of the Flexer's pleasure-inducing movements and vibrations.

 It's an exhilarating experience that transcends physical boundaries, allowing you to explore pleasure with your partner in exciting and unexpected ways.

And that's not all – the Lovense Flexer's app compatibility also offers the Sync to Music feature. Picture this: immersing yourself in the rhythm of your favorite tunes while the Flexer dances to the beat, syncing its vibrations to the music. It's like having your own private dance party where pleasure takes center stage, amplifying the connection between music and pleasure in an extraordinary way.

Last but certainly not least, we have the Sound Activation feature, adding an extra layer of excitement to your pleasure sessions. With this feature, the Flexer responds to sound, whether it's your partner's voice whispering sweet nothings or the sultry tones of your favorite playlist. The Flexer becomes attuned to the sounds around you, vibrating in sync with the rhythm of your desires.

Personal Experience

Whenever Lovense releases a new toy—I simply can't wait to get my hands on it! The Lovense Flexer was no exception, especially since I was super excited to see what the fingering “come-hither” motion would do for me. The concept of a Dual Vibrator “flexing” had me intrigued from the start. Lovense, oh Lovense, you always know how to captivate me with your teledildonic wonders!

As soon as I got my hands on the Flexer, I wasted no time. Curiosity consumed me, and I eagerly prepared for the pleasure ahead. Lubed up and ready to go, I connected the Flexer to the app, anticipation coursing through my veins. 

Once I had everything set up, I dove into the experience starting with just laying on my bed and trying the hands-free experience.. With the Flexer's tantalizing come hither motion and simultaneous clitoral stimulation, it was like being caressed and pleasured in all the right places. Lovense, you've done it again! I surrendered to the pleasures that unfolded, experimenting with the highest flex setting and a medium vibration intensity.

Let me tell you, it was an entirely different sensation—a whole new level of amazingness. The fingering motion, oh how I loved it. Surprisingly, while I felt heightened intensity on my clitoris from the vibrations during the flexing motion, it was the internal stimulation that led me to a powerful orgasm. And the best part? This was a completely hands-free experience! Unlike other hands-free toys that I sometimes have to hold in place or adjust to reach the right spot I simply inserted the Flexer, adjusted it to target my G-spot and clit, and let it work its magic.

Oh, and let me not forget to mention that immediately after one orgasm, I found myself able to experience another. Yes, consecutive orgasms were within my reach.

But wait, there's more! I decided to put the Flexer to the test while sitting in a chair. Curiosity led me to wonder if I could hear any telltale sounds, say while enjoying a meal. Unfortunately I could hear the device unless there was considerable background noise.

Sitting allowed for an even more pleasurable experience than lying down! I was able to rock on the Flexer, gently applying pressure in rhythm with the flexing motion. And in this position, my dear reader, I finally achieved my long-desired blended orgasm—a symphony of sensations that left me barely able to maintain my position on the chair.

For my last test I decided to try wearing the Flexer while walking around the house as if I would be using it in public. Compared to the Lush toys I found that the Flexer was more prone to slipping out, mostly due to the flexing and wiggling motion. Without the flexing function the toy stayed fairly secure but I lost out on the whole novelty of the Flexer.

As mentioned before the toy is not as quiet as the Lush but it is still quiet enough to go undetected outdoors or in a busy space. So while, the Flexer sure does a decent job for public play it falls short compared to toys such as the Lovense Lush 3. 

Lovense Flexer vs. Lush 3: A Duel of Delights

Let's delve into the enticing comparison between the Lovense Flexer and the Lush 3. While these two toys may serve different functions, they share some common ground. Both devices grant access to the captivating Lovense Remote app and have the power to deliver mind-blowing orgasms. However, my dear pleasure seeker, there are indeed key differences that set them apart. Allow me to illuminate the nuances of these titillating choices.

The Lush 3, oh how it whispers in secrecy, designed for those clandestine adventures where discretion is paramount. Its quiet nature allows for stealthy play, ensuring your pleasure remains your little secret.

With a more comfortable design, it effortlessly nestles within your intimate curves, ready to deliver pleasure on the go. The Lush 3 truly shines when it comes to public play, effortlessly blending into your escapades, leaving you tantalized by the thrill of discreet pleasure.

Now, let's shift our attention to the Flexer, a powerhouse of pleasure that demands to be heard. If intensity is what you crave, my dear pleasure seeker, the Flexer will leave you breathless with its robust vibrations. However, its power does come at a cost—the Flexer's amplified pleasure may make its presence known to those nearby. Comfort and wearability may vary depending on the individual, as the Flexer's design may require some adjustments to achieve the perfect fit. This makes it a better companion for intimate moments within the comfort of your own home, as well as for partner play spanning both short and long distances. The Flexer opens up a world of possibilities for those seeking pleasure beyond physical boundaries.

In summary, my discerning pleasure seeker, while the Flexer and the Lush 3 are both wearable options, they cater to different desires. The Flexer excels in home play and long-distance partner connections, embracing its powerful vibrations and unapologetic nature. On the other hand, the Lush 3 takes the stage in the realm of public play, allowing you to indulge in secret pleasures with comfort and stealth. Choose according to your desires, whether it's the allure of public adventures or the irresistible allure of intimate connections. The choice is yours to make, my dear pleasure connoisseur

The Price Tag

Let's talk about the cost and value of the Lovense Flexer. Priced at $199, this pleasure powerhouse may seem like a significant investment at first glance.

However, when we consider the remarkable features and performance it offers, it becomes clear that the Flexer provides excellent value for money.

Compared to similar products in the market, the Lovense Flexer stands out as a true contender. Its triple motor system, interactive capabilities, and the ability to replicate the sensation of being fingered set it apart from the competition.

The addition of app control adds an extra layer of excitement and customization to your pleasure sessions. While there may be other options available at a lower price point, they often lack the versatility, quality, and unique features that the Lovense Flexer brings to the table. 

When you consider the longevity of the Flexer, its rechargeable battery, and the endless pleasure possibilities it provides, the price tag becomes justified. It's not just a toy; it's an investment in your pleasure and satisfaction.

In conclusion, the Lovense Flexer offers excellent value for money. Its superior features, performance, and durability make it a standout choice in the market. So, if you're seeking a pleasure experience that goes above and beyond, the Lovense Flexer is well worth the investment, providing you with endless pleasure-filled adventures.

Pros and Cons of the Lovense Flexer: A Quick Summary

Let's take a moment to summarize the pros and cons of the Lovense Flexer, based on the points covered in our review.


  • Combining clitoral and G-spot stimulation with the "come-hither" motion for mind-blowing pleasure.
  • The app control feature opens up a world of possibilities, allowing for customization and remote play with your partner.
  • Ergonomic shape and body-safe silicone construction ensure a comfortable and secure fit during use.
  • Wide range of vibration patterns and intensities
  • Ease of Use: From setup to operation, the Flexer is designed to make pleasure exploration seamless and hassle-free.
  • Excellent Value for Money: Despite its price tag, the Flexer offers great value with its exceptional features and performance.


  • Sound Level: At the highest setting, the Flexer may produce noticeable sound, which could be a concern for those seeking discreet play.
  • Insertable Toy Preference: If you're not fond of insertable toys, the Flexer may not be your ideal choice.

It's important to note that while the Flexer has a few minor shortcomings, its outstanding features and performance far outweigh these concerns, making it a top contender in the world of pleasure toys.


In conclusion, my fellow pleasure seekers, the Lovense Flexer has proven to be a tantalizing delight that leaves a lasting impression. With its innovative design, powerful functionalities, and seamless app control, the Flexer takes pleasure to new heights and beckons you to explore the realms of ecstasy.

Through the Flexer's come hither motion and simultaneous clitoral stimulation, Lovense has crafted a dual vibrator that emulates the blissful sensation of being fingered and pleasured in perfect harmony. The Flexer's three motors, strategically placed in the G-spot arm, clit arm, and elbow, work together to create a sensation that will leave you breathless.

While the Flexer's power and audible presence may not lend itself to discreet public play, its true magic shines in intimate moments within the comfort of your own domain.

For those seeking an adventure of pleasure without limits, the Lovense Flexer is a formidable choice. I wholeheartedly recommend the Lovense Flexer to anyone who craves the intoxicating dance of pleasure, the unyielding pursuit of climax, and the desire to unlock new dimensions of ecstasy.

About Angela Watson

I'm a sex therapist by day and a sex blogger by night. I love to crush the taboos surrounding sex toys and help people become more sexually liberated. There's no topic too risqué for me to cover and I hope to educate and inform my readers on all things sex. All things that concern the female anatomy or require a more clinical approach than my husband Don can provide is covered by me. Have any questions? You can contact me via email.

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