Best Prostate Massagers Reviewed:
The Top 8 Prostate Stimulators I've Tried
Written by: Don Watson | Updated: March 7th, 2019
The prostate is an under appreciated part of the male anatomy, with most men being against the idea of entirely which has contributed to most guys just not knowing what kind of pleasure lies on the other side of their sphincters.
I held the position of being against a prostate ticklin' myself for the better part of my life. Simply put, having to put things up my bum and feel around for the sweet spot always seemed like too much for me.
I'll agree that no matter how many mental barriers you break down and how much you try, it still isn't for everybody, but it's absolutely one of my favorite ways to get off.
The intense stimulation from a prostate massager and the resulting incendiary orgasm that you can have back to back really sold me that it's all worth it in the end.
My introduction to prostate massagers was all thanks to my wife. She'd tried to get me to explore prostate massagers for years, since she doesn't have the luxury of having a prostate herself to fiddle around with. She wanted to know everything she could and heard good things herself. I was to be both her guinea pig as well as someone she was trying to convince to try a good thing.
After much push back on my part, she eventually broke down all of my apprehensions by talking them through with me and we were off to buy my first prostate massager. Honestly, if it weren't for my wife and her ability to say things in a way I perfectly understand, I might never have peeled back the curtain for myself.
In the end, what's the worst thing that can go down? A little discomfort? Maybe some laughs? It's just a sex toy, I stopped overthinking it.
To keep a long story short, the first time I gave myself a prostate massage was a little strange, so many new sensations that I didn't really know how to process. There was definitely something to it, though, and I was quickly exploring it for everything it had to offer. It was a lovely sensation that I'd never felt before. The first few times, I never brought myself to orgasm because I still wasn't the greatest at pinpointing the right zones to hit. Now, I'm practically a dead-eye shooter.
Since then I've tried all kinds of prostate stimulators and many of them are much better than the others. When it comes to male masturbators, essentially anything that is an improvement on the hand can get points and at least be passable, but when it comes to prostate massagers a lot more design thought is required than what the average Amazon listed product provides.
Here are my top recommended prostate massagers:
The Top 8 Prostate Massagers I Own
The Lovense Edge
I could very well be biased because it was the first prostate massager I ever bought, but the Lovense Edge will always occupy a very special place in my heart. It very well might be my favorite of all of my prostate massagers.
It has 3.13 inches of insertable space which is more than enough to hit the prostate of just about anyone, seeing as how it typically lay somewhere in the 2-3 inch range past the sphincter. With a max diameter of 1.41 inches, it is a pinch below what is considered medium sized for something that goes up the behind.
Covered completed in 100% medical grade silicone, the Edge gives some of the most powerful and 100% customizable vibrations available. There are two motors in the toy, one at the business end and another at the other end of the handle that sits in the perineum and at least for me ends right about where my balls start. What really sets the Edge apart is that you can bend the prostate arm to better suit your personal biology which makes for a much more form-fit type of experience.
With the control offered by the Lovense app, a few dozen prostate orgasms have been placed under my belt thanks to the Edge.
The Lelo Hugo
The Hugo is a close contender to the Edge for my favorite prostate massager. As you can see, it's nearly identically shaped and also has the double motor design for prostate and perineum play.
It's a bit longer than many prostate massagers with something in the realm of 3.5-4 inches of insertable space but it is a bit more cylindrical than others with a maximum diameter of only 1.28 inches. Luckily, the bulbous part of the arm still extends to where the prostate hangs around so it's not like there's any risk of overshooting the good stuff. A bit more lubricant is necessary, but that's about it.
I like that it comes with a dedicated controller so there's no need to extend your arm behind yourself and feel around for any controls like some prostate massagers do, it's just not comfortable to have to do that and honestly this one experience I had where I pressed the higher intensity button instead of the lower intensity button still gives me the shivers.
Compared to other choices, it's a medium sized prostate massager that's good for beginners who don't want to muck about as well as those who have been around for a little bit and are looking for a size up from their training wheels. With a bodysafe silicone design and enough extra features to pack a real wallop, it fills that position nicely.
The Njoy Pure Wand
This one doubles as both a G-spot stimulator as well as a prostate massager. It's made entirely from medical grade stainless steel and comes in at 1.5 pounds.
And as far as a prostate massager goes, it does the job superbly. It's shaped perfectly for the male anatomy. In total, it's eight inches long but it's that 1.5 inch in diameter steel ball that does all of the persuading when it comes to prostate milking. The 1.5 pounds put me off initially, but the added weight is perfect for pressing onto the prostate, there's a bit of tissue between the anal wall and the prostate itself, the heft really does the trick.
Since it's made from stainless steel, cleaning it is absurdly simple, which is fantastic for something that's meant to go up your rear end. Just throw it in a pot of boiling water of wash thoroughly with soap and water. It's super low-maintenance like that.
Make sure to keep a firm grip on it though, the added weight should be controlled at all times.
The Lelo Loki
The Loki switches things up a bit in the prostate massager game. Instead of being a sort of butt plug with extra features, it's more like a club that you insert up your anus.
While it removes your ability to use it while you have pants on or while sitting/laying down, it has two distinct benefits. Firstly, you can much more easily control it yourself while in use because of how much the controls stick out of your behind. Next, if you have your hand on the handle you have the ability to gently rotate or otherwise move the toy around inside you, which will help a lot of people understand what parts of the anal cavity is most sensitive.
It's a tad longer with 3.9 inches of insertable space, but it is very gently curved and there's some plushness to the silicone that does it a lot of favors with comfort and insertion.
With it's long, snug fit and 6 different vibration patterns that you can set the intensity on yourself, it really sets the a good benchmark for quality for this style of prostate massager.
The Lelo Loki Wave
The Loki Wave is essentially the older brother to the Loki with some added features. It has a smaller insertable length with 3.54 inches and a diameter of 1.5 inches. "Big" tends to start at above this diameter, with 1.75 inches being the de-facto "large" size for prostate massagers and butt plugs.
You can notice immediately from the picture is that an extra arm was added. What's this for, you may ask? Nothing other than some good old fashioned perineum stimulation. You'd be surprised how sensitive the gooch can be and if you place it right some of the vibrations from this arm can radiate deep inside the anal cavity for an extremely arousing experience.
The main claim to fame and it's namesake however is the waving "come hither" motion on offer from the prostate arm. It gently wiggles itself forward in a beckoning motion in a way that caresses the prostate like no other toy I've ever laid my hands on. Since the prostate can be kind of elusive and try to get away sometimes, having the toy reach out for it has helped me cross the finish line into orgasm on more than one occasion.
I was worried at first it was just a re-brand with an extra arm, but it's proven to be much more.
The Lelo Billy
The Lelo Billy, as in billy club, is the most gently curved and easy to insert of the prostate massagers on this list.
With an insertable length of 3.9 inches and a diameter of 1.1 inches, it puts comfort at the forefront of the experience. The gentle curve that favors prostate stimulation is what makes it different enough to not be considered a weird kind of butt plug, and the strong motor inside makes it worth it even though the head doesn't have any sharp curves to latch on to the edges of the prostate gland.
The different settings on offer are all pretty interesting and the intensity goes up to the level where you might want to have something to bite down on if you can't be caught making noise.
It isn't entirely waterproof however, which is something it doesn't have going for it compared to the other toys on this list. Still, it isn't enough to make it not worth stopping to look at.
The Aneros Helix Syn Trident
This is the only toy on this list that doesn't have a motor inside of it, but it makes up for it by being one of the most controllable and comfortable analog style prostate massagers available.
It's hard to tell from the picture, but it's actually a pretty small piece. There's four inches of insertable space to a mere one inch in diameter. Normally that would make a prostate massager not really worth the trouble since it wouldn't do too well at tracking down the prostate in the first place.
But, because of the minimalist handle design and the small but sturdy stem, you can wiggle around or do kegels to move the toy around inside of you in a way that can graze the prostate gland bit by bit, essentially you become the motor by either doing kegels to move it around from the inside or grabbing it by the handle and moving it around from the outside.
Bottom line is that it's an interesting design and when you don't want completely fullness or to wait for a battery to recharge, the Helix Syn Trident does the trick in record time.
The PornhubToys Prostate Massager
Pornhub isn't settling for living completely online anymore and they've brought their passion for pleasure into the physical realm by releasing a, well, buttload of toys for our collective enjoyment.
The one that caught my eye was their Vibrating Prostate Massager, for more than one reason.
Firstly, I've learned just how much I love perineum stimulation and the little textured bumps on the perineum end. The toy is powered by a bullet vibrator that goes into the base of the toy, which scared me because I didn't like that there wasn't a dedicated motor in the prostate end. Out of the 7 vibration speeds on the toy, there are definitely about two or three that carry the vibrations far enough for this to not be much of an issue. In the end, I still had more than a few prostate orgasms thanks to this toy.
It isn't intimidatingly large, but is still big enough, and has enough ergonomic features like the bends in the shaft and the bumps on the perineum end to be worthwhile. It's in my opinion one of the best prostate massagers that is powered by a non-rechargeable battery.
Considering how against it I was in the beginning, it's kind of surprising how many different prostate massagers I've gone through and still have. My first prostate orgasm changed how I view things entirely, and I'm glad I decided to explore my body to better understand what kind of sensations are on offer.
Back to the topic at hand though, it should be noted that all of these toys are made from 100% body-safe silicone with some having bits of ABS plastic around the buttons or somewhere on the handle. This means that cleaning with soap and water is super easy and will leave your toy fresh and ready to go for another session in no time. This also means that you shouldn't use silicone based lubes for these toys, instead opting to go with either oil or water based. If you'd like to learn more about how to use a prostate massager, I've written an in-depth guide.
Also, all of these toys are waterproof except for the Billy, which is merely water-resistant. What I've noticed is that water-resistant means you won't have to worry about it when giving it a rinse while cleaning, but it isn't shower safe.
Whatever you settle on, best of luck and may all of your orgasms be explosive.
About The Author:
My name is Don Watson and I love to support my wife Angela's passion for human sexuality. It pays dividends for me personally and I enjoy writing about the topic as I'm a sexual person by nature. I concern myself with everything on the website that has to do with the male reproductive system to compliment my wife's female-oriented content.