Where To Buy Sex Toys Online: 
Our Top 9 Recommended Sex Toy Stores

Written by: Angela Watson | Updated: March 11th, 2019

If you've stumbled upon this article, there's a good chance you're trying to find the best place to buy sex toys online. We've spent thousands of dollars over the years shopping at different online sex toy websites and have created this guide to help people avoid shady sex toy stores.

Finding reputable retailers to buy sex toys can take some people off guard at first. Much like there are tons of brick and mortar stores that sell unsafe toys of ill-repute, the same exists on the internet.

Even Amazon has at times proven unreliable for myself and my husband. Defective toys or toys that are cheap knockoffs are everywhere and sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference. 

That's why I've decided to compile a list of our favorite sex toy vendors that will 100% ship you what you asked for. On top of that, you tend to save a few bucks buying manufacturer direct as opposed to from a third party reseller on Amazon.

Let me tell you the best places to buy sex toys from our experience:

The 9 Best Online Sex Toy Stores We've Used


A sex toy manufacturer that specializes in Bluetooth sex toys meant for long distance couples, Lovense makes some of our favorite toys and they are always a pleasure to deal with. Even though their toys are made with teledildonics (Bluetooth enabled long distance sex) in mind, I can't think of a single one of their toys that doesn't also work wonders on it's own.

All of their toys are made from 100% body safe silicone and we've yet to receive any of them that are defective. Many of their toys got their start through crowdfunding, making them one of the most community-oriented manufacturers we deal with. They often update their toys based on what their customers say and have even completely trashed some toys to make better ones from the ground up.

We've written a complete Lovense review which goes over our experience with all of their toys.


Probably the biggest name in male masturbators, it's no surprise Fleshlight makes the list. They've been in the business long enough to have a male stroker for just about every occasion, and specialized toys for men who prefer certain parts of the masturbatory experience over another. Although their flagship product is instantly recognizable, you'd be surprised at the sheer variety of toys they offer, Fleshlight refuses to fade into obscurity, that's for sure. I imagine they employ some form of masturbation scientist, which is a hilarious job title. Their toys are made from a special blend of TPE called Superskin, which is safe for the male anatomy and fairly easy to clean.

We also love Fleshlight because they have deals for just about every occasion. I mean every occasion, ever minor holidays like Arbor Day you can expect to save 10%, honestly.

Some of my favorite Fleshlights include the STU and the Turbo. I'm also a huge fan of the Fleshlight Launch.


Lovehoney is great if you don't want to stick to just one particular luxury brand of sex toys and want to see a full view of what the current sex toy industry has to offer. They are without a doubt one of the best sex toy sites we've shopped at, simply due to the amount of quality toys they sell. 

On top of it all, they have locations all around the world so they have very agreeable shipping prices no matter what continent you find yourself on and in need of some sexual tension relief. It's a good choice if you want to see a wide range of toys at a wide range of prices. Do note that some of their toys are made out of porous/potentially toxic materials, so always read the information on the toy before buying.

They also stock tons of BDSM gear and lingerie to boot, it's a one-stop-shop retailer that manages to avoid being sleazy.


Lelo has pioneered the idea of being a "luxury" sex toy brand. All of their packaging is carefully thought out and makes their toys seem like the caviar of things you use to get off. On top of it all, they also include a nice satin pouch with all of their toys that makes storage all the more elegant and refined. Because of the luxury moniker, their prices tend to be above average, but in my opinion their toys are as well, so it works out nicely.

In my opinion, Lelo is one of the best sex toy manufacturers in the industry. The sheer amount of toys they have is a clear indicator that they spend a ton of money on research and development. They've created some of my favorite sex toys including the Sona, Ora 2, Hugo and many more.

Adam And Eve

Another online sex shop much in the same vein as Lovehoney, Adam and Eve is a great place to search if you just missed some choice deals on Lovehoney. They've been in the business for over 45 years, so they have enough going for them that they're able to offer deals like 25% your first item if you supply an email address. They're based in America but service Canada nicely as well, making it a great North American option. With one of the biggest selections of couple's toys around, you know darn well Don and I have found ourselves here on more than one occasion.


A newcomer to the sex toy industry, Pornhub themselves have decided to get in on the action and start making sex toys of their own. As of the time of writing, their storefront is just in its infancy but we're excited to see where the porn Goliath of the internet decides to go. Their more upscale toys are branded in Pornhub colors, so they've done more than just take popular toys and stick them all together. They have a good selection of male strokers, female vibrators, and bondage gear to keep anyone busy for quite some time. On top of that, they're all about interactive toys that can be synced to Pornhub Interactive videos, because, duh.

We wrote a full post detailing our experience using PornhubToys.


​​​​There are different types of vibration styles for sex toys, and We-Vibe focuses itself on the rumbly variety. Their toys are intensely strong and all make powerful rumbly vibrations that radiate deep into body tissues. They are some of the best in the business, with the Nova and the Tango being my favorite toys from them. For what you receive in power and raw battery life, We-Vibe is deifnitely worth checking out.


Affectionately referred to by my husband and myself as "The Butt People," Aneros is a medical-supply-company-turned-sex-toy-vendor, they know a thing or two about human biology.

With a prostate massager or butt plug that's extremely ergonomically shaped and in just about every size an anally inclined man or woman could want, they've set themselves up as some of the most advanced creators of butt plugs and prostate massagers around. 

Our favorite toy of theirs currently is the Aneros Helix Syn Trident.


A very inclusive and LGBT friendly storefront, the Early2BedShop is a Chicago based retailer that functions a lot like Lovehoney. They go around finding the best, most sex-positive toys they can and then let us enjoy the spoils.

They've been in business for a while but relatively few people have heard of them, which to me is a shame. Their commitment to spreading quality sex-positive information mirrors my own, and their sex toy collection is nothing short of impressive.

About Angela Watson

I'm a sex therapist by day and a sex blogger by night. I love to crush the taboos surrounding sex toys and help people become more sexually liberated. There's no topic too risqué for me to cover and I hope to educate and inform my readers on all things sex. All things that concern the female anatomy or require a more clinical approach than my husband Don can provide is covered by me.

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