How To Use A Cock Ring: 

Getting The Most Out Of Your New Friend

Written by: Don Watson | Updated: December 2nd, 2019

In short, a this particular class of sex toy restricts blood flow to the penis resulting in a net increase in sexual stamina and pleasure.

Cock rings also often come with an included vibrator. The purpose of this vibrator is two-fold: firstly, the person who brought the penis to this rodeo will be able to enjoy the humming sensation of the vibrator directly while their partner can have the vibrator rub up against their clitoris or anus/perineum while the toy is in use. In this way, a penis band is probably the least selfish sex toy out there since everyone gets to enjoy the sensations on offer.

So, let's get down and dirty on how you can use these toys so you can kick things up a notch in your sex life! But first, I'll go into a bit more depth as to why someone would go for a cock ring at all.

Why Use A Cock Ring?

How To Use A Cock Ring Properly

Getting The Cock Ring On

Using Your Cock Ring

Once the ring is on, using it is fairly straightforward. Any extra features you have are more than likely controlled via a button on top of the device itself. I suggest starting off on the lower vibration settings and then working your way up so you can acclimate to the new sensations being offered, you wouldn't want to lose your composure too early, now would you?

Besides that, the device is more so a passive upgrade to the penis than an actively used toy. Simply have sex the way you normally would, just be cognizant of the fact that the more skin-to-skin contact the vibrator makes, the more pleasure will be felt by yourself and your partner. Deliberately long and deep strokes to ensure that the vibrator has some time with the clitoris pays dividends in the world of penis bands.

You should be noticing that sex has been changed slightly, actually getting over the hump into ejaculation territory shouldn't be as easy as it was previously, while the sensations themselves are still pretty strong. This is one of the most endearing benefits to the cock ring, paradoxically pleasure is increased but so is overall time having sex.

After Sex Procedures

Once you've had your share of fun, immediately remove your toy so you don't accidentally fall asleep with it on. You probably won't suffer any permanent damage from falling asleep with it on once, but the strain on your circulatory system is far from ideal. By taking off the toy immediately, you eliminate the chance of damaging your blood vessels or waking up with weird lines on your penis that are somewhat uncomfortable to deal with.

Your cock ring should be washed thoroughly after being used, silicone rings are ideal for this since they wash easily in warm water wild a mild soap and dry nearly instantaneously. Giving a stretchy cock ring a few tugs to loosen it up the first few times before you put it away can also help shorten the break-in period.

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Final Cock Ring Tips

Here are a few things to keep in mind that I feel deserve their own section:

A cock ring should be worn for about 30 minutes at a time, with an hour being the absolute upper limit. If at any point you notice strange discoloration, a tingling feeling (or lack of feeling at all), a strong sense of discomfort, or any sensation that just doesn't make sense you should take off the cock ring immediately, as those are all symptoms of the band being too tight. No amount of sex is worth permanent damage to the blood vessels in the penis.

Next, if the penis in question is particularly well-endowed, it is possible to move the cock ring up slightly to ensure that the vibrating portion hits the clitoris of the other partner. It should be noted that the further up the move it the cock ring's ability to delay ejaculation is hampered, so there will be a slight trade off at that point, plus the risk of discomfort is slightly higher in this configuration. Still, it isn't completely out of the question.

You don't need to have a penis to enjoy a cock band, either. You can either place it on a vibrator/dildo to get the extra intense vibrating power or you can even use it as a handheld vibrator for targeted stimulation of the vagina and clitoris. In this way, you can get the benefits of a cock ring without having to worry about actually putting it on anyone's cock. My wife and I have used it in such a way where I can grasp the ring in my hand while I use it to stimulate her clitoris while I have sex with her normally. Vibrating cock rings can be extremely versatile if you have the imagination for it. Don't underestimate their power when it comes to accessory work.

If having sex with a condom, the condom should be placed on the penis first. The ring itself can actually function to keep the condom in place if you are tactical enough in it's placement.

As stated earlier, if there are any toys you are going to get away with skimping on lube, it is definitely the cock ring. However, a little bit of lube helps put it on and for some people completely deals with any discomfort while still giving them the ejaculation delay they wish from using their ring. Applying too much lubricant is unlikely to result in the ring sliding off as the tension should keep it more or less in place.

Conclusion

There you have it, cock rings aren't space-age technology by any means, they are quite straightforward in their intended use and how beneficial they can be. Of course, so long as you are mindful of what your body is telling you when using them (IE discomfort) and don't wear them for longer than an hour, there are no possible health risks. I heavily subscribe to the idea that a quality cock band is a must have item for any even slightly adventurous couple. When used properly, cock rings are all benefit and no downside unless you discover they simply aren't for you.

So don't worry, there's very little chance for error here. Once placed along the base of the penis, they aren't hard to wear whatsoever. I believe in you!