How Sex Dice Can Spice Your Up Your Love Life

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How Sex Dice Can Spice Your Up Your Love Life

Written by: Angela Watson | Updated: May 15th, 2021

Hey guys, today I’m not really going to be talking about a specific product or reviewing something, but instead give you a tip to improve your love life while keeping your sex fun, interesting, and exciting.

Have you been struggling to keep things going with your partner? Have you guys been wanting to try something new?

I’m going to let you in on a little secret that me and Don use pretty often to keep things fresh and spontaneous, sex dice.

What Are Sex Dice?

Sex dice can come in all different forms and they can display all kinds of information on them as well. Generally when you buy a pack of sex dice, you are going to be getting multiple dice that can help spice up your evening.

How can they do this?

The first sex die you are normally going to be getting is what is known as the body parts die. This is going to have a list of several body parts, some extremely sexual, some not so sexual.

What I love about it is how spontaneous it can be and how often we can change things up. You’re going to see body parts such as neck, thigh, lips, vagina, and penis on here.

Different sex dice are going to have different things on them, but don’t worry about what you have, it’s still going to be a lot of fun.

Generally the next sex die is going to have a set of actions on them. This is what you are going to be doing to your partner to get things started.

Things like suck, lick, and nibble can make appearances here depending on the sex dice that you have. Either way, when you roll this dice you are going to have to perform this action on a body part.

The one sex die that I like but at times find is unnecessary is the time die. Just like this sounds, the time die is going to tell you how long you need to be doing that action on your partner. Why am I not a fan of the time die? When me and Don play with sex dice, we aren’t looking to rush things or finish up as quickly as possible. 

We still roll the time sex die, however we don’t follow it often. If Don is nibbling on my ear and I am loving every minute of it, he’s going to keep going. If he sees that I’m not really feeling it at the time, he’s going to stop, simple as that. The same goes for what I’m doing to him. I’ve given some fantastic blowjobs to Don because of these sex die and I can definitely say that we’ve gone for a lot longer than the recommended time. 

I understand that the time is important for new couples, and it does help to keep things fresh, but don’t feel like you have to finish it right as the timer goes. Time is all relative and it will never beat out the pleasure and enjoyment both of you are getting.

Moving on to one of my favorites now, the location sex die. Just like the time sex die, it’s fairly self explanatory. Roll the sex die and carry out the action in the location that it shows. Basic sex die will have some fun locations such as the shower, bedroom, and kitchen, but if you are really wild you can look for a more intense set or create your own.

If getting freaky by the window or even the backyard is something that you two want to do, then go for it. If you are getting daring, please respect your partner’s boundaries as well as the laws in the area.

The position sex die is a great one, especially for couples who are looking to try new things and experiment. It’s a great way to learn something new without fear of disappointing your partner. I love the dice for that reason as it encourages someone to step outside of their comfort zone in a fun and playful way.

The last die that we have in our set is the toys sex die. As you all know me and Don have quite the collection of toys so we do like to involve them in some way during our sex sessions. We don’t always roll this sex die, but if we ever are wondering what we should use, we give this one a roll.

You can customize this die to your own needs or you can keep it basic with vibrators and dildos. It’s up to you how you want to use this one.

Why Use Sex Dice?

Now you might be sitting here saying, well this is great and all, but me and my partner don’t need sex dice, we are great already with our sex!

Believe me when I say that this can take your sessions and make them that much more interesting. Think of this as a great foreplay to the real deal. Instead of jumping right into the bed and getting into a nice night of passionate sex, you do something fun to get you both in the mood.

That’s definitely another reason why I love the sex dice. They are incredibly playful so if you aren’t in a sex right away mood you can play around and have some fun till you feel that way.

Like I’ve said, this isn’t a replacement for sex, but instead a way to build up the mood in a fun and playful way.

Another reason why I recommend sex dice in your relationship is that it can help to keep things fresh. While humans are creative beings, we often default back to the things that we are best at, especially if we want to please the other person. 

Your man might be fantastic at fingering you, but has he ever eaten you out and made you moan in pure ecstasy? The sex dice can definitely make that happen for both of you.

As I mentioned, people are afraid to try new things, especially if it can disappoint your partner. If he goes and rolls oral on the sex dice though, he can get a little practice in and have some fun with it. It’s a great way to brush up on your techniques and learn new skills that your partner is totally going to love.

They also work great if you just can’t think of anything at the time. Don and I have tried plenty of different positions and used so many toys, but at times we are both drawing a blank when it comes time to get down and dirty with some good sex. The sex dice can give us some ideas that we can modify. Overall, sex dice are great for setting the mood in a playful way that will soon turn quite naughty.

Don’t Worry About Rolling All the Dice

You might have caught onto this earlier when I was talking, but the best part about sex dice? There are no rules! You make it up as you go!

You can roll one sex die, two dice, three, you can roll all of them if you want. This is about having a fantastic time with your partner, not being a stickler for the rules.

Go with the flow and be in the moment. If you two are too uncomfortable to try something on the dice, simply roll again. If you want an action to keep going, tell your partner. Play the game as you want.

Sex Dice Can Be Funny

I have to admit, there is a hilarious side to sex dice that makes me laugh every time we play.

Sometimes the combinations don’t line up properly and produce something that makes both Don and I laugh. 

You might have seen the episode of the Simpsons when Homer and Marge play with sex dice and he rolls ‘whisper into...ass’.

We are talking hilarious combinations like this and our playful side loves this. We once had ‘rub face on the floor for 2 minutes’ and we just had to sit there and laugh. 

This is what I mean when I talk about how playful sex dice can be and if dice aren’t getting you in the mood, they’re probably making you laugh.

Final Thoughts

If you don’t have sex dice, I definitely recommend getting yourself some. The best part about it? Sex dice are extremely cheap to buy. You can even make your own and fill them out with your own suggestions if you want to get creative. The possibilities are endless here and it is up to your and your partner to explore. If you don’t mind, I’m going to go now and roll my dice to see what I have to do to Don.

About Angela Watson

I'm a sex therapist by day and a sex blogger by night. I love to crush the taboos surrounding sex toys and help people become more sexually liberated. There's no topic too risqué for me to cover and I hope to educate and inform my readers on all things sex. All things that concern the female anatomy or require a more clinical approach than my husband Don can provide is covered by me. Have any questions? You can contact me via email.

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