DIY Fleshlight Tutorial:
How to Make a Homemade Pocket Pussy

Written by: Don Watson | Updated:  March 2nd, 2020

We all have needs, this is a simple biological fact. Unlike hunger or thirst, the need for sexual stimulation can be fulfilled simply by rubbing our junk until climax is achieved. Trust me, I wish I could handle hunger just by rubbing my belly.

But, what about when Old Faithful at the end of your arm isn't cutting it anymore? Variety keeps the mind excited, it's much too easy for masturbation to become mechanical after some time.

So what’s a man to do?

There’s a myriad of male sex toys on the market. Ranging from single-use items such as the Tenga Egg to a Fleshlight molded from the vaginas of real adult actresses, there’s really pocket pussy shortage to speak of. The problem is, these items can be inexpensive and take some time to show up when you need help now.

To combat this issue, many seasoned wankers have found creative and inventive ways to take household items and turn them into a homemade Fleshlight.

Here are a few of my favorite of such recipes you can use to make a homemade pocket pussy.

The Sponge Fleshlight

This is my favorite out of all homemade Fleshlight recipes because there’s a 90% chance you have all of the supplies needed right now without having to leave the house and it actually feels relatively good. It’s easy to make, thankfully.

Supplies Needed:

  • Large tall plastic container (Pringles or Lays Stax works great)(glass cups can be substituted but I don’t need to tell you why that can get dangerous)
  • 2-4 sponges without scrubbing pad
  • Latex glove
  • Rubber bands


  • Place two sponges at the bottom of the container, having them both hug the sides to make a canal
  • Place the latex glove between the two remaining sponges and place them at the top of the can
  • Stretch the opening of the glove around the rim of the container and use the rubber bands to secure it in place

Here’s a video better detailing the process:

Video Credit: Merryfrolics

How Does It Feel?

Getting the proper tightness and feel is the main hurdle in your enjoyment of this homemade Fleshlight. The sponge needs to nice and soft, yet firm. On top of that, you might need to pad the edges of the sponge that touch the interior of the container to ensure the FrankenSnatch has that real-vagina give & stretch. Lubing up the latex glove helps immensely as well.

This sex toy’s beauty is in it’s ease of creation and ease of disposal. The sensations are most similar to an actual Fleshlight product compared to the other options on this list but to maximize this homemade toy’s potential will take some tinkering & fine tuning to get it exactly the way you like. Some people like covering the sponges with bubble wrap, but it’s not wholly necessary in my book.

The Toilet Paper Roll Fleshlight

This is the most bare-bones upgrade from regular masturbation there is, I affectionately refer to it as Jerk-Off+ for this reason.

Supplies Needed:

  • Toilet Paper Roll
  • Latex glove
  • Rubber band


  • Carefully remove the cardboard roll from the middle of the toilet paper roll
  • Pull the latex glove through the middle of the roll where the cardboard used to be
  • Stretch the glove to wrap around the roll and secure it in place with an elastic band

The following video is a visual guide to these three simple steps:

Video Credit: Merryfrolics

How Does It Feel?

The tightness of this homemade romp machine can be adjusted by making the hole where the cardboard used to be either larger or smaller by adjusting it with your fingers. Squeezing down on the roll while in use can also expand the range of sensations available to the user, although it’s a far cry from the suction cap on an actual Fleshlight. The downside of the homemade toilet paper masturbator is that if your member is particularly long you will poke out the other end and not have much stimulation there. Using a paper towel roll solves this issue but then you have to contend with the fact that paper towels are not nearly as soft. Perfection is never the name of the game with homemade Fleshlights however, I’m just happy they work at all.

Ultimately, how it feels can be changed by the plushness of the toilet paper used and how tight you adjusted it to be. When using normal 2-ply toilet paper from my local grocery store, I was able to enjoy a very satisfying orgasm and promptly chucked the thing in the trash. Not the best use of an entire roll of toilet paper, but it definitely brightened up my Sunday.

The Sock Fleshlight

This one is a simple upgrade from my high school days of using a sock as my DIY pocket pussy of the week. The main changes are making sure you have some heavy-duty socks, the addition of a latex glove + rubber band.


  • 2 pairs long thick socks suitable for use in the winter (normal socks work too but I find the thicker socks make a better sex toy)
  • Latex glove
  • Rubber bands


  • Stack the two socks from one pair on top of each other and fold them so that the cuffs (where you put your foot in) are at the bottom of the sock body
  • Place the latex glove on top of the two socks and place the cuff hanging off the edge of the first pair
  • Do the same with the other pair of socks but have them so that the cuffs are facing the ceiling, sandwiching the latex glove between the two pairs
  • Stretch the cuff of the latex glove around the socks and secure with an elastic band

Here’s some video help if there’s any confusion:

Video Credit: Merryfrolics

How Does It Feel?

The sock masturbator is one of the softest and best feelings of the homemade masturbators on this list. Tightness can be adjusted by either squeezing your hand down or buying longer socks to fold over each other more. The supplies are easily found and it isn’t necessary to throw out the socks when you’re done due to the beauty that is washing machines. This is the easiest of the toys on this list to make and is also the easiest to adjust to your personal sizing needs.

The above 3 methods I learned by reading the following DIY Fleshlight tutorial. It’s definitely worth checking out if you want to learn 2 more methods.

The Cornstarch Fleshlight

For the science-inclined, this is the homemade pocket pussy for you. It is also semi-difficult to pull off but is one of the more famous DIY Fleshlights available. I’ve seen this recipe get thrown around the internet for the better part of a decade. This one does not need a latex glove, duct tape, or rubber bands, you’re essentially making your pseudo-vagina entirely from cornstarch in a receptacle of your choosing.


  • A fairly big cup that is microwave safe (don’t use glass, just don’t.)
  • Cornstarch
  • Water


  • Fill your cup about halfway with cornstarch
  • Add water to the cup until it is 75% full
  • Stir thoroughly
  • Microwave the cup for 1-2 minutes until the mixture resembles gelatin
  • Allow the mixture to solidify and then poke a hole in the middle before microwaving again for approximately half a minute, make sure to be patient during this step
  • Place a rod or stick slightly smaller in diameter than your penis in the middle of the cup
  • Place the cup with the stick in it in the refrigerator for one hour
  • Remove from the fridge and take out the stick

How Does It Feel?

This is essentially the DIY version of Superskin by Fleshlight. The texture should be rubbery and firm but still soft & pliable. This works for about one use as the cornstarch doesn’t have the structural integrity for more than one rough fucking. Do not warm this DIY Fleshlight up as the cornstarch will return to a more jelly-like consistency and all tightness will be lost.

Honestly, the feel isn’t all of that great and after using genuine Fleshlight products it feels like I bought this at a Chinese market branded as a “Flishlight” or something like that, the homemade nature is quite obvious. It’s the closest thing on this list to biological tissue, but the toy is pretty finicky overall and sometimes is a bit of a hassle to make. It takes about an hour and a half to make so it is not a good choice for an impulse wank as a pre-made one sitting around is a hotbed for bacteria to fester in and will result in you getting some sort of wang infection, make sure not to keep thing one around for too long after you’ve used it.

Which DIY Pocket Pussy Works Best?

In my opinion, the Sponge Fleshlight most closely mimics the feel and experience of a regular store-bought Fleshlight, but that still isn’t saying much. Genuine Fleshlight products are a much better choice than anything on this list, but if you’re in a pinch: definitely go with the Sponge Fleshlight. It’s hard for a homemade pocket pussy to really come close to a store bought sex toy, but I find that the sponge is probably the closest of the bunch.

Final Words

Any homemade Fleshlight on this list is a great way to spice up your masturbation routine and make it feel like less of a, well, routine. With practice, a DIY sex toy is a definite improvement from using just your hand. What’s beautiful about a homemade male masturbator is that it they are completely disposable. If you have to go out and buy any of these supplies nobody will know you’re going to make a homemade pocket pussy out of this strange collection of duct tape and a glove or two. Some of these recipes you can probably find all of the ingredients to make it without having to leave the house at all!

If you plan on using any of these methods on more than 5 or 6 distinct occasions, my opinion is to just put down the box of latex gloves, stop thinking about how to best use duct tape, and save up some cash to get a genuine Fleshlight product. They’re a lot cheaper than you might think and they’re constantly running specials to make them way closer to a price you’ll like. On top of it all, we have our very own coupon that will take 10% off your Fleshlight order, simply put DrClimax10 into the coupon code section while checking out to take advantage of this discount.

About Don Watson

My name is Don Watson and I love to support my wife Angela's passion for human sexuality. It pays dividends for me personally and I enjoy writing about the topic as I'm a sexual person by nature. I concern myself with everything on the website that has to do with the male reproductive system to compliment my wife's female-oriented content. Have any questions? You can contact me via email.

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