Best Sex Games for Couples

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Written by: Angela Watson | Updated: July 5, 2021

The best part about having sex, is obviously the sex itself. Nothing beats the passion and love you experience with your partner as you get intimate.

That being said, I know that there are plenty of women (myself included) who have trouble jumping into things right away.

This isn’t because we aren’t interested in our partner, it’s because our body needs time to build up to these kinds of things.

I understand that some of you might not get excited at the sound of foreplay, but foreplay is necessary as it helps lube up our vaginas for what is about to happen. Foreplay doesn’t have to be boring though. There are plenty of ways that you can spice it up and turn it into a fun and sexy event that will make the sex that much better.

Don and I have been experimenting around with sex games and we have found that they not only quickly set the mood, but they allow us to have fun before we hop right into the sex. We get a little competitive too when we play some of the games against each other, and we add a few fun wagers in there as well.

Why Would You Want To Play Sex Games

Well simply put, as I stated above, playing sex games is a great way to add some fun and excitement into foreplay. Instead of you feeling like you are building towards sex, you are doing an activity that you are completely immersed in.

I’ll be honest, there were times during foreplay where I was sick of it and just wanted to hop right into sex, even if my vagina was dry. As soon as we started adding sex games though, it made everything that much better. 

If you’re a woman reading this, you should definitely talk your man or partner into trying some of these games. They’ll quickly forget that foreplay is boring and love every minute of the activities.

What Games Should You Play?

That being said however, you do have to make sure that you choose the right games. Everyone is different and everyone has their own interests and hobbies. The point of sex games is that they are supposed to be fun. If your partner is having a bad time, you’re just ruining the experience.

I sat down with Don and we brainstormed what we thought are the best sex games for couples. These adult sex games can easily set the mood and we have provided plenty of different options so you have plenty of games to play.

If you guys don’t enjoy the first, move on to another game. This isn’t going to be a best of article for that reason as everyone’s taste is different when it comes to games. Here is what we consider to be the best sex games for couples.

Top 10 Best Sex Games for Couples

Sex Dice

Sex dice have been our favorite for a while and it really is one of the best sex games for couples. For those of you who have never heard of sex dice, it is a game that helps dictate oral and sex positions, telling you where, how long, and what body part. You can even get more dice to add toys into the mix as well.

Our favorite is to use three dice stating an action, a body part, and a duration. For example: one dice could say Kiss, the other could say Lips, and the final dice could read 30 seconds. This would mean Don and I would have to make out for 30 seconds. The timer is just a suggestion and we find that if we are enjoying the action, we will keep it going for longer.

I do have to add that sex dice don’t always turn out so perfectly. You might find a hilarious combination like “Lick the Floor” or something else that is absolutely ridiculous.

But that’s part of the reason why we consider this to be one of the best sex games for couples. It’s extremely sexy, but also quite goofy at times and you just have to sit back and laugh. Not only are you going to be having a great time with the actions, you’re going to be laughing and bonding further with your partner. Sex dice is definitely one of the best sex games for couples.


Sex Toy Roulette

Sex Toy Roulette

Sex toy roulette is a fantastic adult sex game to play if you have quite a large collection of sex toys. Let’s face it, as our collection grows, we start to forget about the first toys we had. That’s not to say they are bad or don’t feel as great, it’s just we focus on the newer things that we bought.

When Don and I played sex toy roulette, we were able to dive into our collection and use toys that we had absolutely forgotten about and boy did we love it. Don pulled out some of his Fleshlights and I swear it was almost as if he was trying them for the first time.

The way you play sex toy roulette is simple. You can create a wheel, use a phone app, or just simply make a list of all the sex toys that you want to use. From there, you are going to randomly select something on the list and then use it. It’s one of the best sex games for couples that have a ton of toys but are stumped and don’t know what to use.

With this game, it might take a bit of time to get the actual roulette part up and running, but once you do, you now have a steady game that you can use whenever you want. The other reason why we consider this one of the best sex games for couples is that it can be absolutely free. You can make the wheel yourself with paper or home, or just use a website. The sky is the limit with sex toy roulette, and I recommend trying it out once or twice, even if you are alone.


Jar of Desires

Jar of Desire

We all have our own sexual fantasies and desires that would take sex to a whole new level. The problem is, at times we don’t know how to go about discussing it with our partner, or simply finding the time to implement it. By making a Jar of Desires, you can create a fun sexy environment that fulfills your deepest sexual needs.

This is one of the best sex games for couples who are creative and love to get their brains going. It’s quite easy to set up as well. Grab a jar and write down a sexual fantasy or position that you’ve always been wanting to try. Fold it up and put it in the jar. Slowly fill the jar up with plenty of ideas like this one. Don’t worry about doing it all in one go however. Don and I took a few days to fill ours up and we were quite sporadic when it came to coming up with ideas.

Once you feel you have enough pieces of paper in the jar to start your game, simply reach in and pull out a slip. This is going to be your sexual activity for the night. This is a great way to vary up your sex if you find that you are sticking to vanilla methods too often. It can be quite hot pulling out your favorite fantasies as well. This is definitely one of the best sex games for couples who are creative and want to experiment.


The Post-It Game

Post-it Game

The post-it game is one of the best sex games for couples who want to reinforce and strengthen their relationship. The first thing you are going to want to do with the post-it game is get naked. Take your clothes off, throw them away, and do the same for your partner.

Next, you are going to want to grab a set of post-it notes and a pen. You are going to put the post-it notes on parts of your partner’s body that you find attractive and sexy and you can write a compliment on it or write how it makes you feel. This can help build your partner’s confidence because at times they might be feeling down about their body.

Once you have placed your post-it notes, feel free to explore those areas with your hands or mouth to remove the post-its.

Don and I loved this game because we were able to feel extremely confident and sexy. It’s always nice getting compliments, and it led to some passionate and intense sex. This is definitely one of the best sex games for couples who need to strengthen the bond between them.


Strip Twister

Strip Twister

Strip Twister is a classic and will always be one of the best sex games for couples. I assume that you're familiar with the rules of Twister, however if you aren’t it's a game where you put your hands and feet on a colored mat based upon a roulette. If at any point your arms or legs leave the mat, you are eliminated from the game.

Strip twister changes the rules up a little and instead of eliminating the other person from the game, they are instead forced to take off an article of clothing. They can play the game till they are completely naked and after that you can add in penalties such as oral or a dare. This is one of the best sex games for couples who are younger, as we found out that when you get older you lose a lot of flexibility. Don’t let that stop you though if you want to rekindle your youth.


Naked Cooking

Naked Cooking

Don and I love cooking naked as it sets a romantic tone in quite the sexy way. Now I do want to give all of you couples a warning out there, please do not cook greasy foods such as bacon naked.

Cooking naked is supposed to be sexy, and getting burnt is probably one of the least sexy things that can happen, especially if it’s on your genitals.

A great solution to that would be to have aprons for the two of you. What we love about aprons is that they are often covered on the front, but completely open on the backside. This allows Don to check out my butt as I’m getting the food ready and vice versa. It adds that extra level of romanticism to a dinner date.

Be prepared for cooking timings to go out the window however, as you definitely will get distracted by your partner during all of this. Set plenty of alarms so you don’t burn your food. You can’t say I didn’t warn you.


Dirty Jenga

Dirty Jenga

Dirty Jenga is another fantastic sex game and is one of the best sex games for couples who want to still play classic games.

To play Dirty Jenga, all you are going to need is a Jenga set and a Sharpie marker. Go through each of the Jenga pieces and add a dare, a truth, or an action to each block. When a person removes the block, they are going to have to do what it says.

That’s not the only twist with Dirty Jenga. If the person knocks down the tower, decide on a punishment for them.

It can be as intense as you want it to be! Don and I find that we love games where we can be spontaneous and decide things on the spot. This is why we consider it to be one of the best sex games for couples.


Truth or Dare

Truth or Dare is a classic game and it isn’t only known as one of the best sex games for couples. It’s popular among people of all ages and I’m sure you’ve had an experience or two playing this game when you were younger. Truth or dare is a great way to get to know your partner more and build up towards some hot sex.

Most games start out with some truths back and forth, but beforelong I find everything is a dare. Eventually the dares just stop at some point and then the sex begins.

Please be careful when you are doing dares as you don’t want to force your partner to do something they are uncomfortable with, nor do you want them to do something that is illegal.

Always communicate with them and give people an option to refuse a dare. You might be a little disappointed if they say no, but keep in mind that they are saying no for a reason.


Eforia App

Eforia is one of the best sex games for couples who are just starting to explore each other and learn about each other.

It is a great way to communicate in a fun and sexy way that promotes wellness and consent. With a lot of sexually themed conversations, people can sometimes overstep their boundaries rather quickly and make the other person uncomfortable, even if it wasn’t their goal.

With the Eforia app, everything can be explored in a safe way and it ensures that there is consent throughout.

You can definitely explore your fantasies as well and you might learn a naughty thing or two about your partner.

Don and I definitely think this is one of the best sex games for couples that have been dating for a short amount of time.


Strip Poker

Strip Poker will always be a classic when it comes to sex games. It’s been featured in TV shows, movies, and Don and I have played it as well at home. You can play against each other, or you can invite another couple over and make things really interesting.

There are going to be people naked by the end of the game and it’s going to be up to you to decide what to do with them. We absolutely love this game and consider it to be one of the best sex games for couples both young and old.


Closing Thoughts

This is quite a comprehensive list of games that we play around the home when we want to have some more fun with foreplay. Remember that the point of these games is to have fun and while competition isn’t necessarily a bad thing, it has to remain healthy. Always make sure that you are communicating with your partner and that you both are having a great time. 

If they don’t like a game, the simple solution is to try a new one. I definitely think these are some of the best sex games for couples out there and encourage you to try a few of them our for yourself. You’ll know when you find the right game because the moments leading up to sex and the sex itself will be some of the best you’ve ever had.

About Angela Watson

I'm a sex therapist by day and a sex blogger by night. I love to crush the taboos surrounding sex toys and help people become more sexually liberated. There's no topic too risqué for me to cover and I hope to educate and inform my readers on all things sex. All things that concern the female anatomy or require a more clinical approach than my husband Don can provide is covered by me. Have any questions? You can contact me via email.

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