The Best Chastity Devices & Cock Cages:

Well, the saying goes that everything in life is about sex except for sex, which is about power. The power someone holds over the level of pleasure felt by someone when they're the only owner of the key to free them from their penile exile is exactly what people in the BDSM world exploit to get off.

That's not to say some men don't have their fun with male chastity and cock cages all by their lonesome, though. Many people love to lock up their cock just for the sheer thrill it gives them. Who says you need a partner to enjoy a quality cage?

If you have more questions about cock cages, there will be some information beneath my top picks which I've listed below. But, there's a good chance that just scrolling through this list will be more than enough to get the idea across.

My Top 5 Recommended Male Chastity Devices:

Lets go over 
each cage!

#1 - CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit (Best Overall Chastity Belt)

It is worth noting that there are different locking pins and spacers included as well, this is hands down one of the best customizable male chastity devices I've ever seen, if you had to get only one cock cage for your entire sexual career, this would be the one. Plastic toys like this make some of the best male chastity devices since even when locked there's no worries about having to make some tough decisions about how you're going to get out of it should the key disappear.

Two good features here are the vents on the side to keep things comfortable also as the smartly placed & well sized ejaculation/urination hole. You won't have to worry about accidentally peeing all of your cage and having to shake it dry each time you have to take a leak. I've worn this cage for long periods of time without having to worry about being too uncomfortable, making it one of my toys that I like the most as far as bondage gear is concerned.

Included is one padlock with one key, so getting an extra made isn't a bad idea if you're prone to losing things. Also, a 44mL lube sample is included which I appreciated early.

It's comfortable, it's customizable, it's a great cock cage all things considered.

#2 - MyStim Pubic Enemy No.1 (Best E-Stim Cage)

As for the cock ring itself, the silicone cage itself is spacious and comfortable, there's a bit of give to make it more forgiving when locked as it does rest close to the body but it is still a cock cage through and through. Personally, I find silicone does a good job at warming up to ambient body temperature for all-day use.

The clasp that the cage attaches to is variable, giving as much as 2.04'' of diameter or as little as 1.29'', with 4 different settings in-between those 2 for a total of 6 variable positions.

This time the padlock included comes with two keys, which I highly recommend since having an emergency key can save you a trip to the emergency room.

#3 - DOMINIX Deluxe Chastity Cock Cage (Best Metal Cage)

There is a urination hole, but it is rather small and difficult to use properly. Whenever I wear this device, I adjust my penis slightly to use the bigger holes off the sides as opposed to the tiny hole. Any splash damage is easily washed off in the bathroom however, but remember to dry it off properly before pulling your pants back up.

It's sinfully restrictive and the included padlock comes with two keys which is really helpful seeing as how I'd rather not have to take an electric saw to my junk if I ever got trapped inside this thing.

For those who want a cock cage that's built for masochism in mind with few creature comforts to "cheapen" the experience, it's a no-brainer.

#4 - Dominix Deluxe Silicone Short Cock Cage (Best For Small Penises)

Unlike some other cock cages, there are no included spacers and what you see is what you get. Wearing it is comfortable thanks to the silicone design on the sleeve. The overall design of the toy makes this an extremely simplified option with superb ease of use, it really is an excellent starting male chastity device from which the new user can expand their horizons from. Not their cocks, but their horizons for sure.

The included brass padlock has a full three keys that come with it, so if you lose them all and get yourself stuck there's a certain point at which you need to take some personal responsibility when it comes to locking your penis up in a cage. As heartless as that might sound, it is the truth that maybe wearing cock cages isn't your cup of tea if you manage to lose three whole keys.

So, it's a great cage for a beginner with lots of wiggle room and options to stay comfortable. Plus, the three keys pretty much guarantees you'll be able to get yourself out if needed.

#5 - Fetish Fantasy Extreme Chastity Belt (Best Cheap Chastity Belt)

It takes a bit of getting used to as far as how the whole unit moves whenever you do, but after a while it gets tolerable. If you really want to be aware of your predicament, then it's definitely worth a shot.

It's probably my least recommended choice on the list, but if you want to save as much money as you can but like metal cock cages, it does tick the right boxes.

Who Are These Cages For?

Individuals or couples who wish to add in an extra layer of control and power to their sexual counters love what a cock cage can bring to the dynamics of a relationship. When orgasm denial is on the menu, people can get more than just a little horny. Men who are willing to put the time into male chastity seldom regret the experience once they find the right sizes of U-ring/spacer for them.

Lots of BDSM puts the power in the male/"giver" of sex, this toy firmly reverses that dynamic by allowing the person who usually receives that penis to be in control. Whoever has the key can make whatever rules they want about when the lock will be removed, everything from begging & pleading to emptying out the dish washer is on the table if they so please.

There's an inherent roleplay aspect to using the cock cage, the person with the key holder doesn't truly "own" the penis within nor is the attempts of the person within the cage to escape true desperation. It's all a show for everyone's enjoyment, you follow me?

Sometimes the key holder can tease and try to turn on the imprisoned person, resulting i the beginnings of an erection. After a while, the penis will push along the edges of the cage and will stop becoming engorged at this point. This is where a lot of sexual tension comes into play, the person wants nothing more than to be fully erect and able to gratify themselves but they are physically unable to thanks to the cage. This isn't gratifying to everyone in and of itself, but it makes the moment when the cage is gone all the more ravenous and memorable.

People who are extremely close to one another love this transfer of power, with some seeing it as a testament to the level of trust they've built up together over time. Cock cages aren't toys for the faint of heart, they're serious business for serious men.

How To Wear A Cock Cage

Male chastity devices are pretty simple, all things considered. There's the cage itself and the ring it attaches onto which fits along the base of the shaft.

Here's all you need to know about wearing cock cages: first, put on the ring. Then, insert your penis into the cage itself and then bring it towards the ring. Depending on what cage you have, you can use spacers to give yourself more room and comfort. Then, fit the pieces of the cage onto the corresponding parts of the ring. After this, there's usually a very obvious spot in which to place the lock. 

Once locked, you'll know you did everything right if you can't escape from the cage no matter how much you try.

Male Chastity Tips

There are a few things I'd suggest to any men who want to wear a chastity device of their own, they aren't too complex but can help reduce the amount of adjustment time it takes for you to become fully comfortable.

Experiment With Different Sizes

Before you end up finding your ideal male chastity toy, you'll likely have to fiddle around with a few differently sized cages until you have your fit figured out. If at any point when you wear your cage there's any discomfort that borders on pain that's a huge indicator you need to try on some larger sizes of device. You should be able to walk around and even get into some pretty wild positions while laying down comfortably. Otherwise, you should either adjust your existing cage or consider a new one to wear altogether.

Have A Contingency Plan

Before you lock yourself up in male chastity for the day it's important that you have an escape route if necessary. Either have your key in an easy to reach location (even hung around your neck if you have to) or wear a cage that can easily be broken if something goes wrong like sudden pain or an extreme bathroom break that needs a bit more freedom. There's no telling when you might suddenly need an out, like if you get invited to the gym out of nowhere and would rather not have to wear your chastity device the whole time.

Remember To Clean Periodically

Men often neglect their chastity devices because they aren't always using them in an active sexual way like some other sex toys. A male chastity product can usually be washed even while you're still wearing it so long as you have some Q-tips on hand to clean around the edges of any holes in the toy. If you frequently go to the bathroom while wearing your cage you should spend extra effort cleaning the areas where stray droplets of urine are likely to collect.

Chastity Keyholder Etiquette

If someone trusts you enough to give you control over the freedom of their genitals, you should do everything in your power to properly respect that trust. For instance, you shouldn't lock someone up and then leave town or stop communicating with them in order for them to "panic". Some "panic" or distress is part of the experience, but legitimate torture is not the aim of the game here. If it is, you should figure out a safe word.

Even if you are keeping things relatively casual, a safe word is still a good idea. This way you know if they really do need to get out of the cage for any reason whatsoever. 

The first few times you try out the cage you should play with it by not actually locking it, sort of doing a few dry runs before committing to the idea. Some people get off just fine without actually locking the cage, the "lock" being the fact that they haven't been given permission to take the cage off. This is about stimulating the biggest erogenous area in the body: the brain. So don't be afraid to leave more to the imagination.

People who are considered a great partner for this kind of play is someone who has just as much inner care for the cock that's been locked up as the person attached to it. Men are very protective of their members, they need to know that their partner is someone they can rely on.

Being someone's keyholder is a big deal. Don't abuse that power. The penis in question will have its comfort, mobility, and ability to do simple things like go to the bathroom impaired. It's fun, but it's also serious.

Male Chastity FAQ

Can I Wear A Cock Cage All Day?

Answer: The quick answer to this question is yes. A bit more complex is the fact that you should find the right cage compatible for your lifestyle and personal size. I find when it comes to wearing a cock cage all day being out and about, plastic or silicone cages are much more forgiving. Silicone cages are the easiest to pass off as you go about your day, as some of the metal cages will make a characteristic bulge that might put some people off. But, there's nothing wrong with wearing your cage all day so long as you only feel minor discomfort (the pleasurable kind that drove you to get one in the first place) as opposed to legitimate pain.

Can I Sleep With A Cock Cage On?

Answer: Under no circumstances should men fall asleep wearing a male chastity device. If you move in your sleep you might cause some discomfort in the morning, there's no telling how you'll move during the time spent asleep. The biggest worry though is phantom erections or morning wood, you have very little control over those types of erections and they tend to not go away quickly regardless of how unsexy your surroundings may be. It isn't fun to scramble for the key for your cock cage while you hope your member doesn't pop, it isn't the best place to be at all.

What Do I Do If I Lose The Key?

Answer: When it comes to plastic or silicone cages, breaking it off yourself at home isn't an impossible task, but be careful. Metal cages on the other hand you're likely to have to go to the emergency room. Other places might have the resources you need to break free, but only the emergency room is comfortable seeing your genitals while they do it.

Final Words

The cages on this list go through pretty much every option you'd want from a chastity device. All of the common materials are represented and there's enough variance between the 5 listed choices that you should be able to find the right mix of personal comfort and restraint.

Remember, a device made from silicone or plastic is a lot easier to bust out of if you're the kind of person who's worried they'll lose their key and be stuck in a rough spot with one of their cages locked around their cock. It's more about finding cages that have spacers or U-rings in the right sizes for you, that's one part of male chastity you need to have in mind at all times.

A male chastity device can add a lot of fun to the bedroom even for those who aren't much into BDSM type play. So long as you respect everyone involved, there's no reason not to have an amazing time. For me, wearing cock cages was a new experience that it turned out I liked a lot more than I thought I would.