The Best Cam Sites: 
And Why I Use Them

Written by: Don Watson | Updated: May 10th, 2021

Sometimes the wife isn’t in the mood for sex when I really want to bang, sometimes I’m not in the mood when she really wants the bone.

But I refuse to go down like this: whenever the wife isn’t in the mood, I dutifully take care of matters myself. Thankfully, we are both open-minded people who consider porn, sex shows and live camming to be acceptable and important outlets in our relationship, and we don’t view any of these as crossing any lines. 

Having said that, I’ve really gotten into the world of live cam sites recently. It feels like a completely different type of fap session and in a lot of ways I prefer it a lot more than porn. I’ve figured that the universe can’t deny me of my sexy right to watch beautiful women get naked and play with themselves while I do the same.

There’s a different pace and rhythm, there’s a wide selection of cam models, there are private rooms and dare I say, there’s even an aspect of it that makes you feel like a porn director sometimes.

We typically see Skype, FaceTime and Zoom as the head honchos for virtual communication, but I’ll gladly trade away all three of those in exchange for an absolutely gorgeous, supermodel-esque goddess using a double sided dildo right in front of the camera because I tipped her enough to do it. 

With a few months of cam site experience as a viewer, here is my list of the best cam sites, and more importantly, why. Whether you have a porn IQ of over 3000 and have been in the cam game for some time, or if you’re a horny newbie looking to have regular interaction with your soon to be favorite cam model, some navigation info could go a long way for those sleepless or sexless nights.

New To Cam Sites? Here’s What You Should Know

 You can tell your model how you want her to be positioned, what toys to use, you can connect with her toy via Bluetooth and you can call the shots for her to please herself while you do the same. A lot of these cam models do this for a living as well, so they want to do the best job possible so that you can keep cumming back as a regular.

Without further ado, I’ll talk about my top 6 cam sites: Jerkmate, Chaturbate, MyFreeCams, LiveJasmin, CamSoda and Bongacams. I find that each of them just does something a little differently each time, and I hope that I can help you find your favorite site or that I can set you on the right path to finding your new favorite model!

Jerkmate

For pornstars, you will be able to see their schedules, which I thought was a neat feature.

So once you enter your model’s cam show, you have an open chatbox where you and other viewers can message your performer directly. If you want some alone time with the performer, you can pay to have a private session where you and her are unbothered by everyone else’s messages. You can tell her to do whatever you want her to do. 

Chaturbate 

While other sites might be more free form in terms of what type of show your model will put on, Chaturbate is more scheduled and rigid, but not so much as to drive viewers away! What I mean is, each model’s room will have clear instructions on how many tokens are required for specific actions, such as 100 tokens to deepthroat a dildo, or 2000 tokens for a gushing, geyser like squirt.

Some key considerations for Chaturbate are the purchasing powers and entertainment by viewer volume and teamwork with your mates who are also viewing this goddess on the other side of the screen. Chaturbate operates on a tipping formula where you would spend approximately $10 for 100 tokens.

Considering this, you can really see the importance of tipping collectively to have your model perform jaw-dropping and profoundly sexy and dirty stuff to give you that leg-shaking finish you’ve been thinking about all day. I’ve noticed that tips follow a chain-like effect, where one big tipper will get a personal shoutout from the model, which encourages others to tip high as well so they can get a mention too. Nothing like having your model call out your name in a breathy, sexy moan. 

You can save any model as a favorite and tip them accordingly. Similar to Jerkmate, the models work on tips as well, so their incentive is to put on a memorable show. For one on one sessions, Chaturbate charges on a pay per minute basis. Chaturbate is also highly inclusive, as there are sections catered for gay men, couples or trans viewers.

MyFreeCams

You would typically find more chill, funny and down to earth models on here, almost as if they lived next door or that they’re your asshole boss’ hot, slutty daughter, which can do a lot for many people in terms of getting horny. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean performance in a sense of faking orgasms or anything, what I mean is that there’s more appeal to connect with viewers and to give a more personable experience.

In that sense, MyFreeCams has the potential to provide a much more intimate and connected experience than other sites in this way, my wife has caught me a few times in the other room, laughing hysterically with my rock hard willy in my hand--she never knew what to say to that strange sight. 

So, because MyFreeCams is a free live cam site, you will almost always encounter high traffic in terms of the live chat, so attention from the model will definitely be hard to get. Similar to a strip club, your best bet here would be to sit back, watch and hope that you have an entertaining model. In terms of payment, while it is free, there are options to tip via tokens. 

Although this site mostly has women, there is a section for gay male, couples and trans cam models!

LiveJasmin

In terms of features, the free shows aren’t anything to write home about as the models themselves are drool worthy enough to make you want to tip. It’s during the private shows where viewers are likely to devote their jerk sessions to this site, as the models will do everything under the sun to make you explode your love juices everywhere. The site has a mobile option, which I thought came in pretty handy, even though I myself never used it.

For payment, because LiveJasmin’s bread and butter are in the private shows, they operate on a pay per minute basis, which can be pretty pricey if you get lost in between your model’s legs and forget to check the time. This site has sections devoted to women, men and couple-play, making it accessible for all sexual orientations.

CamSoda

Bonga Cams

Which Cam Site Is Best For YOU?

As hot as traditional porn is, live cam shows feel like a different type of fapping experience. There’s a different rhythm and pace if you want to jerk along with your model, there’s a personable and relatable aspect if you want to feel a friend-with-benefits type of human connection with your model, there’s extremely high-quality women who are out of our leagues and there are collective tipping goals that viewers will want to work together. 

Live camming is fun as hell and as hot as ever. If you are not interested in being a regular on these sites, they are still worth a try at the very least. If you are looking to regularly visit this genre of orgasmic pleasure, you will leave satisfied every single time.