Best Bondage Kits To Start Your Dungeon Right

Everything You Need To Know

Written by: Angela Watson | Updated: June 8th, 2021

Have you are your partner been wanting to explore more BDSM and bondage during sex, but just do not know where to start?

You are not alone. This is a common concern I hear from couples when they decide they want to spice things up in the bedroom and are ready to get more adventurous with BDSM or bondage sex.

BDSM and Bondage, when done safely and thoughtfully, can really bring your relationship and sexual fulfillment to the next level, but these desires do take time to learn about and explore.

Naturally, a lot of that time comes from sifting through your options for the different bondage restraints and BDSM accessories you want to purchase. I have found beginner’s BDSM kits and bondage kits to be excellent places to start when you are entering the world of BDSM and bondage sex.  

In this article, I am going to go over a few of my favorite BDSM kits and bondage kits to do the hard work for you, so you can get to the fun part a lot faster.

Explore my review of 7 different beginner BDSM packages and bondage systems that I would recommend to any couple looking who want pain and pleasure in the bedroom, and not while shopping. 

Top 7 Best Bondage Kits To Start Your Dungeon Right

#1. Lovehoney All Tied Up Bondage Play Kit (8 Piece)

This 8-piece bondage play kit from Lovehoney is a great place to start when shopping for restraints and sensory toys to discover a new kind of intimacy with your partner.

The Lovehoney All Tied Up kit features a blindfold, wrist and ankle restraints, and an “under the bed” restraint that stays put under your mattress to keep your partner in place on the bed. All of these restraints are beginner friendly too: the cuffs are soft and easy to use with velcro strapping and quick-release clips. 

Once you or your partner is pleasurably restrained, use the sex toys included in this kit (body safe and silicone nipple suckers, vibrating cock ring, and finger vibe) to bring your arousal to the next level. 

Want even more teasing? This kit comes with an erotic flogger to complete this intimate bondage play experience. 


#2. Lovehoney All You Need Bondage Kit (20 Piece)

With 20 pieces, this Lovehoney All You Need kit is exactly that: all you will need! This kit has a large variety of products to restraint, tease, and arouse both partners. This is the kit that you will purchase as a beginner, and continue to use even as you become more adventurous and experienced with your play. 

What is included? Here is the lengthy list: a blindfold, rubber flogger, stainless steel pinwheel, beginner’s collar, nipple clamps (designed for first-timers), nipple ring clamps (for more advanced users), clitoral pleasure clamp, ball gag, 5 meters of bondage rope, bullet vibrator, G-spot vibrator, single use vibrating cock ring, textured penis stroker, silicone jiggle balls, 6 inch dildo, silicone butt plug, silicone anal beads, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, and under the mattress restraint system. 

As you can tell, the All You Need kit leaves nothing out when it comes to delivering maximum pleasure to yourself and your partner. With so many different sensory toys and accessories (for an excellent price, too), you will find a huge range of possibilities within this kit to bring your bondage sex to the next level. 


#3. Lovehoney Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece)

The Lovehoney Master Mega Bondage Kit is a great choice for couples who want to explore all their fetishes and desires during BDSM play.

What makes this kit different? Well, it has your necessities like a blindfold, ankle and wrist cuffs, and 4 way under-mattress strap, but then it takes the excitement up a notch with more sensory toys to brush the boundaries of your play. In this kit we have nipple clamps and teasers, a pinwheel, flogger, collar, and a bondage candle. 

If you are just starting out with bondage and BDSM, do not get intimidated by the kinky and adventurous possibilities of this set. All of these toys are designed with beginner users in mind and can be used to introduce you and your partner to these new, arousing sensations.

You can safely experiment with domination, sensory deprivation, spanking, and even hot wax play by following the detailed instructions Lovehoney provides you with your purchase of this kit.


#4. Stockroom Joanna Angel Bondage Essentials

A great kit to explore BDSM and bondages with is Stockroom’s Joanna Angle Bondage Essentials. As the name suggests, this kit has everything you need to properly (and comfortably!) restrain your sub and experience all the fun bondage sex has to offer.

This kit comes with wrist and ankle cuffs that cinch with a buckle instead of the velcro straps seen in other starter kits. While the buckle can be more challenging to strap on and remove, they bring a more classic and powerful aesthetic to your play.

The kit features a posture collar and silicone ball gag to amp up your BDSM pleasure. Finally, and arguably the best feature of this bondage kit, is the leather hog tie connected to the leather cuffs.

The hog tie holds your partner’s feet up and arms behind their backs totally, making them at total mercy to their dom. 

While this kit has everything you could want for a basic restraint kit, the bright pink trim around the cuffs and collar might be a deciding factor for people who opt for more neutral or all-black options. 


#5. Stockroom Kinklab Leather Hog Tie Bondage Kit

The Stockroom Kinklab Leather Hog Tie Bondage kit is another restraint kit that is similar to Stockroom’s Joanna Angel Bondage essentials in that it also offers high-quality and easy to use hog tie restraints for safe and thrilling bondage play.

This pack gives you the basics for a hog tie that will put your partner in total submission and give you full control over their sexual pleasure.

Simply use the wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, and hog tie that clasp together with nickel-plated claws and D-rings with ease to put your partner into a position that will bring you both pleasure.

The Stockroom uses black leather on all of these items. The all-black leather with silver hardware is a classic look that is sure to last no matter how many times you are bringing this hog tie into your play. 

This kit is a great choice for people who already have pleasuring sensory toys in their collection, and are looking to up with bondage sex with a hog tie that will complete any dungeon- beginner or more experienced. 


#6. Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit (10 Piece)

The Lovehoney Take Control Bondage kit is an excellent choice for my couples who are looking to jump into dominance, power play, and strap on sex. The wide range of bondage restraints and sensory toys that come with this kit can easily turn any room into the BDSM dungeon of your dreams.

This kit comes with a universal, adjustable harness to fit all doms, that easily fits the silicone dildo it comes with. With 3 interchangeable O-rings you can explore the strap on or pegging experience you have always desired.

Now, the thrill does not stop there. This bondage kit also takes care of sensory deprivation with a blindfold, and keeps your sub in their place with four cuffs, a ball-gag, and under-mattress strap system.

This kit takes care of foreplay too: build up to your arousing power play with the Lovehoney Take Control Kit’s vibrating bullet and silicone nipple suckers.


#7. Stockroom Under the Bed Restraint System

In my opinion, no BDSM dungeon is complete without an under the mattress bed restraint system.

Bed restraint systems keep the submissive partner in their place and give them that satisfying experience of being totally vulnerable to their partner and pleasure- but not all beginner kits come with one.

To make sure you have this option in your collection, consider purchasing the Stockroom Under The Bed Restraint System.

The highlight of this product is that it is suitable even if you do not have a bed with bed posts, as many basic under the bed restraint systems usually require you to have. This gives you more freedom to use this restraint under any mattress, no matter your set up.

This restraint system is beginner friendly, durable, and versatile. This kit conveniently comes with 4 60 inch nylon straps, a main connector strap, and 4 wrist and ankle cuffs that tighten with velcro straps. The cuffs can also be connected and extended to become a collar or thigh strap, adding more thrilling possibilities to your bondage sex. 


Final Thoughts

Whether you are just getting into bondage and BDSM, or you have decided to commit to your own dungeon dedicated to adventurous restraints and power play, do not hesitate to start with one of these beginner kits. By using the proper restraints and accessories during sex, you can make sure that your bondage and BDSM intimacy is safe, comfortable, and able bring your pleasure to that next level. 

About Angela Watson

I'm a sex therapist by day and a sex blogger by night. I love to crush the taboos surrounding sex toys and help people become more sexually liberated. There's no topic too risqué for me to cover and I hope to educate and inform my readers on all things sex. All things that concern the female anatomy or require a more clinical approach than my husband Don can provide is covered by me. Have any questions? You can contact me via email.

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